Just Like “House of 1000 Corpses” Except with Fewer Corpses and More Humiliation

It was only a matter of time before I got into trouble here at my new office. Three blissful weeks of uninterrupted professionalism and sobriety were just too much for me to ask of the Universe. I’ve been waiting patiently to do something dreadfully embarrassing like flip a driver off in traffic only to find out in the parking lot that it was my boss. That’s why today, day 13 of my new job, I was not surprised when all that waiting came to an end.

I was lost in thought this morning on a routine trip to the lady’s room, probably pondering the supreme existential questions of mankind like where on the unattractiveness spectrum does ugliness end and deformity begin. Still deep in contemplation, I entered the restroom and approached my favorite stall. My reverie was cruelly disrupted when I saw before me a toilet with a lifted seat and urine spatters along the raw, exposed rim. Huh, I thought, here’s one I haven’t seen before. Some women are real freaks I guess.

My eyes widened in panic as it occurred to me that that may not be the case. A more reasonable explanation presented itself. I might have overshot the girl’s room by one door. As a result of my own spaciness and a case of massive autopilot failure, I might instead be in the men’s room. Like, for males only. Coincidentally, the gender of the CEO, President, and Vice President of my new company. All of whom were getting out of a breakfast meeting any minute and were no doubt, full to the brim with coffee.

These disturbing mental images flashed through my mind as I stood just inside the stall, completely frozen. Then the main door to the bathroom opened and I slammed the stall door closed behind me and attempted to shrink to an eighth my normal size while cowering next to a sullied toilet that despite more serious prevailing concerns, continued to noticeably skeeve me out.

Instead of the click-clacking of stilettos across the tiled floor, I heard the soft padding of flat shoes. Like the scene in a slasher movie just before a stupid blonde is murdered, the footsteps moved casually past the sinks, excruciatingly slowly past the crack in the door jam that I was desperately trying not to watch, and finally into a neighboring stall. With my heart pounding in my ears, I ripped open the door and flew out of the restroom.

As I paused for breath directly outside like the complete and utter moron that I am, the President appeared in the hallway before me. My face fell into a look of abject horror to have been caught exiting the men’s room. Thankfully, like all good senior staff members, he was too preoccupied with his own thoughts to notice that I appeared to have just soiled myself in his presence. He smiled benevolently before passing me and entering a door to my left.

I spun around and saw that I had been in the women’s room after all. My trustworthy autopilot had not failed. Shaking, I double checked the skirted symbol on the door and reentered, making sure to avoid the tainted stall of terror which I may never be able to use again.

Where's Waldo? Let Me Show You.

Ya know what pisses me off, Interweb? When your next door neighbors go away for two weeks at the end of December and turn off their wireless router so that you are bereft of Interweb access for HALF A BLOODY MONTH. And then they come back and lock the network so that you can't mooch off of it anymore. How uncharitable is that at this time of year? Seriously, my neighbors are the opposite of philanthropy. You can blame them for me not blogging much recently.

I suppose you could also blame my new rockin' job which keeps me super busy during the day but I would prefer if you didn't come down too hard on them. Granted I've only been working for two weeks but I absolutely adore the new gig. The days fly by since I'm not just sitting around waiting for the phone to ring, I get to commute by car in my new pimpin mid-90s whip, the office is filled with girls my age who invite me to lunch every day to discuss our favorite available-only-on-TV merchandise, and there is free Diet Coke available in the fridge. If I can figure out how to sneak Bacardi onto the office supply ordering list, I'll absolutely be in 9-5 heaven.

In addition to Interweb issues and working for a living, Beau and I are now house hunting in earnest. The morning after our Christmas party Evil Landlord politely asked us to vacate by March instead of staying till the end of our lease in June. He insisted it wasn't because we were blasting Bette Midler until 3:00 am but instead because his sperminated wife will be spawning in the early spring and they'd like to move her mother into our apartment. While this is a massive inconvenience for us, I don't particularly want to live one thin layer of floorboards above a screaming baby. Plus, I imagine our landlord's life is about to suck big time if his mother-in-law will be living in the house. I take some twisted comfort in that. But, don't worry. We're not being evicted and we haven't put anything in writing. We're just trying our damndest to get out of here before the Seed of Evil Landlord is birthed.

At any rate, Beau bought us our very own Interweb connection so I'm free to babble to my heart's content. And now that I'm done with what was intended as a quick introduction to get you up to speed on my enormously interesting life, I see that it has actually evolved into a fairly lengthy entry unto itself so instead of launching into further revelations, I will instead say goodbye for now and promise to post again within the week.

Not So Dangerous

While most normal people are quick to blame their mistakes and appalling behavior on an Evil Twin, I long ago accepted that this was not an option for me. This is mainly because if I had a twin, I would invariably be the bad one. I've had a colorful past (some of which I illustrated for you at this time last year). When I sat down to compile a similar entry to conclude 2008 though, I wracked my brain and found the pickings to be much slimmer. Sure, I climbed out a window at a party last weekend, and yes, granted, I fell out of a chair later that same evening, but overall, there are fewer wild stories to choose from. Now, I'm more likely to curl up in my pajamas with a book on a Wednesday night than be chased out of a parking lot by the cops for public urination. Could it be? Have I… matured?

At the very least, my Good Twin has been rearing her un-hungover pretty little head with greater frequency. Beau has already taken the liberty of naming her "Cautious K" and shames me with the moniker every time I cross-stitch or turn down a fifth rumndietcoke or drive with my hands at 10 and 2 or gently suggest he maintain a speed of 35 mph. Maybe it was the four months of penny-pinching unemployment, maybe it was the increasingly nasty hangovers. Whatever the cause, the damage is irreparable. We're facing a kinder, gentler Dangerous K. One who drinks decaffeinated tea, has a gym membership and soon, a mortgage. One who gets tipsy off a bottle of wine and serenades her DD with an a capella rendition of Elton John's greatest hits. For that matter, one with hobbies other than drinking.

Did those past two paragraphs lose me my entire readership (who I assume is bent on hearing stories about me skin my knees outside a bar in Fenway)? I don't mean to suggest in any way, shape, or form that I have become an overnight teetotaler. On the contrary, I fully expect a number of shenanigans in the future, but I have to admit that the past year has been the tamest I've seen since 2001. It's time to pass the torch onto the younger pups like Mistress who tossed her cookies in a diner bathroom and then cheerfully rejoined the breakfast table last weekend. Ah, the good ol' days may have passed, but there are some things I just won't miss.

By The Numbers

To summarize the past four months of my life:

I permanently withdrew from the graduate program I was slated to begin in January. I applied to 72 jobs: 11 in September, 16 in October, a whopping 39 in November, and just six in December. I was offered 10 interviews and made it to eight. I had four second round interviews. I had one infuriating third round interview. I had one faux job offer which dissolved into nothing when I left a message accepting the position, called five more times that day without success, and finally got through to someone the next morning who gave me an attitude, told me they were “still deciding” and never called back. I met with four staffing agencies. Two of them laid off my original recruiter. None of them were able to find work for me in a span of almost four months. So, you see, it’s been a rocky third of a year.

And absolutely none of it matters now because I was offered a job this past Friday (this time with legitimate paperwork!) which I gleefully accepted. I’ve learned an important lesson, which I think my father was right in saying that I’m lucky to have learned at this age when I have so few financial obligations. But even in my euphoric state last Friday, I had one last lingering concern. I worried that this phase changed me as a person, made me a somber, antisocial downer unable to even write a funny blog anymore. So I did the only thing I could to test the waters: I got invited a dozen of my friends over for a Christmas party, got shit faced drunk, spilled a rumndietcoke down the front of my shirt, and needed a team of people to help me overcome the hiccups.

I'M BACK BITCHES! AHAHAHA!

Close Only Counts In Horseshoes & Hand Grenades

I just… I don’t even know where to start. I have spent the past five days trying to decide where to start. I’ve started and then stopped and erased everything because it was not to my liking. I take my blogging very seriously. In short, some things happened on the trip and those things were surrounded by a lot of…. quiet. I don’t know if those events were actually eventful or just seemed eventful because they were not, in fact, cornfields. So, before another week goes by and my relations in New Jersey get their collective panties in a twist over the lack of posting, I’m going to go ahead and just start at the beginning. If you don’t mind.
Our wagon ride occurred mostly without incident which goes against everything I know about the Oregon Trail. There was no typhoid or blocked mountain passes or bear hunting (not yet anyway… that’s foreshadowing, folks. You gotta pay attention to my foreshadowing. T, are you paying attention??) We managed to fit almost every one of our worldly belongings in the barely-existent trunk of an Audi TT. Then we drove five hours west with four pit stops because seriously, at any minute we were about to fall off the face of the earth and I was reluctant to pee on a farmer’s front yard. Also, Beau needed tater tots in Troy, NY.

Finally, we approached our destination in West Bumble. We zoomed past the farmstead (going entirely too fast, eh hem) where Bologna was standing outside frantically waving her arms. That made me start flapping my own arms and squawking. Beau, probably because he was going entirely too fast, was one step ahead of me and was already turning around in the driveway of someone who might have run out of their home with a shotgun. Instead of an angry yokel, we next encountered a loose cow that proceeded to race the convertible for a short distance. It’s as if we went to the zoo and found a tiger walking around outside its enclosure. These things aren’t supposed to happen. Tigers are supposed to stay in their cages, and cows are supposed to stay inside their fenced pastures.

We spent the remainder of the day wandering around cornfields, taking pictures of deer poop, and getting acquainted with the holiday’s cast of characters. In addition to the family, we met two cats, Sweet and Pooh, so named for their individual temperaments. Sweet was particularly awesome. She’s twenty years old and noticeably blind. When she looks at you, it’s like she’s looking through you directly into your soul and reading your inner most thoughts. Then she would go and wreck my theory of feline wisdom by walking into walls and meowing peevishly at them as if it was the wall’s fault. According to Mr. T (T, that is your dad’s official blog name. I just wrote it with the intention of circling back and writing something more clever, but then I was all, “Mr. T?! YES.” These things just come to me) Sweet still goes outside and hunts. AND ACTUALLY KILLS STUFF. So, yeah, she may be a little clumsy and we may have found her standing in a toilet one night, but it’s all a part of the cosmic feline wisdom that I detected in her spacey stare.

Thanksgiving morning, before I woke up, the menfolk (T [Hi T!], his dad, my dad, and my Beau) went into the woods with guns and tried to kill things. Real guns. With like, real bullets. My boyfriend and my father with his iffy hearing and his poor eyesight went deep into a secluded forest, somewhere south of the Adirondacks, with loaded guns and little supervision. But happy times! They all came back alive and empty handed. Apparently, a few shots were fired but, as Mr. T told us, “close only counts in horseshoes and hand grenades.” They should have brought Sweet with them. She would have felled a buck with telekinesis and plaintive mewing.

We rounded out our visit to the middle of nowhere with a trip to the closest town which was a thirty minute drive through the woods and fields and farms. And at that, it was still the middle of nowhere. We wandered and visited a used book store and looked at Christmas decorations. All very peaceful, pleasant activities but you don’t want to read about that. You want to read about Beau pitching a hissy fit at a bakery which was really slow in that not-a-Starbucks-in-Boston way so we left before he got a cookie and complained about it until we got him a beer at a dive bar on the edge of town instead where he nearly got us all shot by loudly announcing that “those guys really suck at darts.”

That night we had an Oregon Trail style send off. Mr. T made us a bonfire in the backyard and sharpened sticks so we could roast cocktail wieners and marshmallows. We were having a merry ol’ time setting things on fire and stuffing our faces, when a mile down the road, the dogs at a neighboring farm began barking. Hysterically. The T’s all looked at each other and were quiet for a moment before forcefully starting conversation again. I was not so easily fooled so I asked what all the racket was about. They told me it was nothing to worry about. The dogs probably just smelled… something. Something? Yes, something. Like a coyote. Nothing to worry about.

I’d already been worrying about that for days. Ever since Mr. T said that the coyotes were originally introduced into the area in order to keep the deer population at bay, but they weren’t big and mean with drooly fangs enough, so local officials introduced a coyote/timber wolf cross breed. How is everyone ignoring the wolf part?! That’s like ignoring the part of me that’s Polish. Yeah, I’m mostly Italian, but that doesn’t cancel out all the Polish qualities. You should see me try to do simple common sense tasks like open a box of frozen chicken nuggets. The Polish is in there, festering, and it makes a difference. Except, generally speaking, those genes don’t make me snatch unsuspecting city folk from camp fires and feed them to my young.

Needless to say, despite attacking a bush with my pointy stick in self defense and nearly soiling myself twice, the predators stayed at bay long enough for us to wrap things up and return to the comfort of the indoors and the protection of Sweet.

Truly, this was a proper Dangerous holiday. I was nearly run down by a cow, pitch forked by angry locals, and eaten by a coyote in the span of 72 hours. Oh, and my dad almost shot my boyfriend which would have been a particular inconvenience because there was absolutely no room left in the trunk of the car for a body.

Real Pioneers Caulk It and Float

In the time honored tradition (which began last year) of the Dangerous Family, Thanksgiving simply cannot be held in a reasonable location. Why would anybody want to have dinner in front of a roaring fireplace at their father’s house in temperate South Carolina where one could still at this time of year feasibly walk on the beach? Thanksgiving must be an Adventure. This is to test the family loyalty. Sure you’ll help a relative hide a body, but will you drive cross country to stay in a roach infested motel?

Much to Beau’s disappointment, we won’t be returning to the Liki Tiki in Florida this year. Instead, we’re taking a relatively short drive of five hours to upstate New York, home of T’s entire family. Entire. Like going back a dozen generations to the Mayflower era when people were called hominids and ate ants with sticks. Yes, we’re going to eat Thanksgiving with the descendants of real life pilgrims. To do so, we just need to drive through an area that’s been blanketed with snow for a month to a place that Google informs me is nestled snugly between the Catskills and the Adirondacks. We will be frontiersmen in our own right as we forge through this wilderness where there may not be public restrooms, acceptable fast-food, paved roads or cell service. In just two days, we begin the exodus of The Slightly Abbreviated Oregon Trail.

Culling knowledge from the computer version, I know that the first step involves packing the wagon and similar to the ways of my overzealous ten-year-old self, I am already over packing. But instead of bringing fifteen pounds of cornmeal and twenty chickens (each with a name and an elaborate personal history that was explored in detail via the journal feature which chronicled every time a hen wandered off or had to be killed for food), I’m taking a number of supplies that Beau and I are concerned we may not find at our destination. Among these items are cilantro, comfy pillows, rum, and freshly ground coffee as well as a full arsenal of allergy medications since I’ll be cohabiting with multiple felines, which, though adorable, make me sneeze uncontrollably and my throat swell up in an unattractive and life-debilitating way.

Speaking of bodily weakness, remember how pissed you’d get when Amos, the quote-on-quote doctor, would come down with cholera somewhere in Wyoming and you’d have to rest for two weeks? Like Amos, I am also diseased. The inexplicable disappearing zit that hid before I got to last week’s interview has resurfaced on my chin and it is ANGRY. It looks much less like a pimple and much more like a second chin jutting out to the right. For thematic continuity, we’re going to call it mumps.

So, this is how I am required to prove my loyalty to the family and renew my membership for the coming year. With cornmeal, dysentery, and mountain lions. Pray for us. And Godspeed on your own travels!

A Comedy of Errors & Illustrations of Said Errors

Hello free blogging hobby! I had an interview this afternoon that very nearly went horribly wrong, but happily, did not because I apparently have good karma.

My chief concern this morning was picking between two completely different interview outfits.

I brought this quandary to Beau’s attention because he works with Conservative Types and therefore, would be able to best answer whether the bright blue shirt ensemble or the white shirt/coral necklace outfit would be most appropriate for an interview at a Conservative Type Place. Beau picked option #1 which secretly pleased me because that meant I didn’t have to iron the horribly wrinkled white shirt. Yay one less thing to do!

Instead, I ironed my hair to make it less poofy and more straightish while watching reruns of Golden Girls (and, yes, I know this goes against the cardinal rule of my last entry but I gave myself a break since I was going to have an honest-to-God interview and I needed something to calm my nerves because going into public gives me agita now that I rarely leave the apartment and when I’m nervous I start defecating because nervous pooping runs in my family. When my cousin got married a decade ago, all the bridesmaids had to crowd into a bathroom stall to help lift her dress so she could pooh without obstruction. Ahh, longest parenthesis interjection ever! How much longer can I make it?! Ok I’m done).

Next, I ironed the skirt part of my suit so it could match my hair in its lack of wrinkles. I looked down at my project while I chortled at Sophia’s antics and noticed that the first pass of the iron had done more than just de-wrinkle. It left a white chalky residue which I lamely swept at, still calmly chortling. But it did not go away and I began mentally freaking out: “What the fuck?! The iron came on the fuckin’ black skirt that I have to wear to a Conservative Type Place?! What is that?! OH GOD!!”

I ran to the sink and began scrubbing just hard enough for the Iron Jism to really set into the fabric. Then I upgraded to wet paper towel. Then to Mr. Clean Magic Eraser which has saved articles of clothing in the past. Then in a moment of temporary insanity, I turned the faucet on full blast and dunked it in. Then I realized I had an hour to pull myself together and dry a now soaked “dry clean only” garment. Then the nervous pooping started. Then I only had 55 minutes to dry the skirt.

In a full set of penguin-print flannel pajamas, I tore down to the basement, ignoring the electrician working in a corner, and threw my shame into the drier which I cranked up to the max. Back up in the apartment, I simmered down slightly and began searching through my closet for other skirts I could wear with the suit jacket. The first thing I tried on looked ridiculous but not because the pieces didn’t match into a real suit. They looked ridiculous because the jacket looked like a sack. I checked the tags, assuming I grabbed one of Beau’s suits, but unless Beau has started shopping at New York & Co, then it was mine. Turns out being poor is making me skinny and for once in my life, I was not thrilled with this.

I gritted my teeth and dug to the depths of my closet to pull out my very first suit which I bought right out of college and made me look like a sausage the last time I put it on about a month ago. Granted it was still snug today, but a much closer fit than my newer suit. With mere moments to spare, I ironed the white shirt which is Iron Jism resistant by nature of already being white, slapped on some make-up, and looked in the mirror before running for the train. Here is what I saw looking back (except for the letters floating around my body; those are for explanatory purposes only):

Now I will use those floating letters to explain everything that was wrong with my appearance when I walked out the door this morning:

A) Entirely too much eye shadow applied by a girl who reads every issue of Glamour but still can’t figure out cosmetics.
B) A giant underground zit that popped up somewhere between nervous pooping and make-up application and is now hiding under a thick layer of concealer which actually conceals very little.
C) Pin stripe suit that I bought OVER TWO YEARS AGO (on second thought, I’m going to give that one a silent fist pump)
D) Scab from scratching at dry skin. Ew. Do you even want to know these things about me?
E) Elastic lines from the fuzzy argyle socks that I wore all morning
F) Mystery bruise from mysterious source. Possibly obtained during Mouse Hunt.

Somehow, in some magical, cosmic way that I will never EVER understand, points A, B, and E resolved themselves between the train and my arrival at Conservative Type Place and the others suddenly didn’t look like an issue. Furthermore, I had a lovely interview with two charming ladies who appeared to like me, genuinely laughed at my jokes, and made allusions to a second interview next week. On my way home, I thanked the universe for pulling through for me on the big day by emptying the contents of my change purse into the collection pot of a very surprised looking Salvation Army bell-ringer, despite being dirt poor, despite not having had a paycheck in almost 80 days, despite having sworn off Crystal Light Iced Tea which was a major addiction and source of happiness that cost me an unjustifiable average of $4/week without providing nutritional sustenance or inebriation.

So, thanks Universe for throwing me a bone and letting me have a good interview today. Here’s $1.08 in nickels and pennies for your trouble!